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26-29,
*harcloe
writes:I'm really worried about my best-friend, because for about six months now she has been dating this guy.I do have to say that it is the most stupid relationship that I have seen, they never go out on dates, have never kissed, and spend most of the time arguing about stupid things like spelling or math questions.Now, I don't want to sound like the cow that's trying to break them up, because it's her life, not mine.But I have been getting a bit worried, because when hes not around, she talks to me about how she wants him to move in with her, and maybe get married when they're older. She once even told me about what she wants to name their kids!!I'm really worried about this, because, honestly I think she's in a terrible relationship, and we're not really old enough to be thinking about settling down and getting married, especially to the first boyfriend we ever had.I don't know if I should just leave it alone, because it doesn't look like they'll be breaking up in the near future. Or I should say something, because I have tried once, but she just got mad and said I was trying to break them up.I don't want to break them up, I just want to tell her that it's probably not a good idea to plan the rest of your life out with the first boy you've ever dated, because when they do break up, it's going to be a hell of a lot harder for her.Please help? Reply to this Question
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reader, sherrig  +, writes (17 March 2013):
Stand by your friend, let her make her own descisions, she will let you know when she needs your help. If you try to interfear, she will be angry at you, and have no one to turn to. Good Luck
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reader, Intrigued3000  +, writes (17 March 2013):
 If it would ease your worry, you could express your concern to her in a non-critical way, but then you have to back off and let her do her thing. Who knows what the future holds? I've seen the perfect couple whose relationship was smashed to smitherines after a period of time, and I've seen couples who seemed so incompatible, yet they are still together. Nothing is what it seems.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (17 March 2013):
Don't worry, they'll break up soon.
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