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Is it wrong that I am taken aback by my wife admitting how many people she has slept with?

Q.   me and my wife are both 30 and been together for 12 months. we recently did the "how many people have you slept with" conversation and she confessed to sleeping with 36 people, mine is 12. am i wrong to feel slightly taken aback by her sleeping with ...

A.   9 April 2010: thanks for all the advice. to reply to a few comments: i'm not bothered about the pride thing, i.e she slept with more people than me. i'm not worried about how i compare. i know i'm the only man who's made her cum through penetration alone. ... (read in full...)

He tells me I blow hot and cold and now the relationship is really messed up

Q.   Hi Im really getting fed up of men treating me badly, to the point where I am getting very despondent. After a 2.5 year relatinship with an abuser, we split and I have had a year out being single with the odd date in between, recently I met a great ...

A.   9 April 2010: my advice would be to move on. if there's these sort of issues after one month i don't think that's a good sign. i understand where you're coming from. my wife had a previous relationship of 4 years with someone who was very abusive. after they spli... (read in full...)

Can you love 2 people at the same time?

Q.   my ex left me for another girl 8 months ago yet we've still remained in touch. he says he still loves me and would like to think we'll get back together some day. he also admits that he loves her and doesnt know what to do. What's he playing at? You ...

A.   9 April 2010: you're right: you can't love two people at the same time. if he claims to have equal feelings for you and this other girl he is either lying (stringing you along, and her) or he doesn't know what true love is. true love should have you feeling comp... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is texting the guy who likes her

Q.   MOD NOTE: 2 posts combined into one. What's going on people? Well I found out my girlfriend still texts a guy who she liked and was about to date while we were broken up for a month. We been together 2 years. Yesterday while she was at her int...

A.   9 April 2010: talk to your girlfriend about it. there are clearly trust issues in your relationship that needs addressing. if you both can't trust eachother completely then the relationship won't last. simple as.... (read in full...)

I don't want her to think she can lie to me and treat me like a fool, but I don't want to lose her either

Q.   Bit of a long one this. A few months ago i met up with an old school friend. before we met up we'd been emailing and texting each other a lot. during this time our feelings for each other grew. we both felt an emotional and sexual connection. we met ...

A.   1 July 2009: two different replies. but thank you both. the thing is she only told me about this other guy afterwards. rhythmandblues2 you are missing the point. it's the lying that is an issue. she's looked me in the eyes and sworn on her life that things went ... (read in full...)

I can't finish without my vibrator -- is this a problem?

Q.   So all my life I had trouble orgasming. I didn't have my first until I was 21 and bought myself my first vibrator (though I'd tried with hands without success). My boyfriend is freaking amazing in bed and I have never been so turned on by anyone, ...

A.   1 July 2009: me and my partner are the same. she has never had an orgasm through penetration alone but i know she really enjoys the sex. it's more about the intimacy and closeness we feel when we are having sex. like you she can easily orgasm with a vibrator and ... (read in full...)

I'm willing to wait, I love her so much it hurts...

Q.   So I met this girl about three weeks ago. I have been with her solid for those three weeks like being at her apartment and sleeping in her bed. we have had sex 3 times and she gave me keys to her apartment. I told her i loved her and she said she ...

A.   30 June 2009: sounds like a classic case of commitment. the initial stages of a relationship should be cherished. it's a honeymoon period and you should enjoy it for what it is with out trying to rush in t0 anything more serious too quickly. if she wants space ... (read in full...)

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