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How can I show her that I value our friendship?

Q.   what can i do to show my 16year old very close best female friend that i care and value our friendship? lots of idea's or suggestions please!...

A.   16 October 2006: Just make sure that you're implying the right thing. I've had a girl give me a 'friendship' poem, and had no idea whether she liked me or not, in hindsight it was because I had a crush on her, and was looking for any sign of her liking me, even ... (read in full...)

He seems to try to make me jealous. Is he gay? Why is he like this and what can I do about it?

Q.   I have known this 22 yr old guy on and off all his life, but we became close 10 months ago whilst he was going through a really painful break up with his ex of 5 years (she lied and cheated on him) and we became bf and gf 4 weeks ago after he had ...

A.   16 October 2006: Talk to him. I can't really understand where he's coming from in some of these situations, but i suggest this: get him drunk (only if you want to lol) and then have a good conversation about where you two stand. He'll be more honest, if you're ... (read in full...)

How do you ask someone why they are acting weird without causing offence?

Q.   There was someone at work that I asked out but he decided against it due to the fact that we worked together, however it started a mutual friendship. The thing is that he left work for another company and I thought our frienship was growing but as ...

A.   16 October 2006: I like that last reply. Be honest. Be earnest. Just walk over next time you see him and say "What's up?" If you're not embarresed by the topic of conversation, chances are that he won't be either... (read in full...)

Why does my man lose his erection? How can I help him keep up?

Q.   Dear Cupid, My new man seems to lose his hard-on before sex or during. Is there something I am doing wrong - perhaps I am not turning him on enough? I have never experienced this with a guy before. he is only in his 20's also so not affected by ...

A.   16 October 2006: I've had this with an ex of mine, personally I think I just wasn't ready to have sex with her, so wasn't fully commited. Like they say the most important sex organ is the brain. Have a chat with him and make sure you're both fully ready for it and ... (read in full...)

I'm wet so why don't I actually feel that horny???

Q.   Sometimes when im having sex with my bf, although im wet down stairs, i dont really feel that horny. Why would i sometimes feel that way? ...

A.   16 October 2006: hehe, well guys get erections like 20 times a day, without any reason at all. I'm guessing it is a similar situation, maybe try and get closer to him emotionally, or change something around, definately talk to him though, and if you're not ... (read in full...)

Any advice for a ginger guy?

Q.   Hi i am 18 and i have never really had a girlfriend and i have been unfortunate enough to be born with the worst astetically pleasing hair colour. ( thats my excuse). i dont think i am that unattractive (apart from the above) but it seem that i ...

A.   16 October 2006: K, i'm going around giving out this advice because it worked so fricken well for me. Read 'The Game' by Neil Strauss, it has some really good tips that build confidence a lot, and shows how females think a bit. Your red hair will be an awesome ... (read in full...)

No self-confidence and I'm a virgin at 25. Where do I start?

Q.   Hi, Got a good question. I am 25 and I am a virgin. A pure virgin. Never been kissed, Never had a girlfriend. I have a low self confidence since been bullied at school and I've just watch "The 40 Year Old Virgin". It was very uncomfor...

A.   16 October 2006: I have advice for all guys (and I guess this could help for girls too): Read 'The Game'by Neil Strauss While this book is how to 'pick up' girls, I found that when I read it, and started to understand some of the laws of attraction, I ac... (read in full...)

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