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writes:well i have a bit of a problem i went out with this guy for six months and it was the biggest regret of my life, i should have never gone out with him, he wasent a good boyfriend he is a complete jerk this is what he did, he told everyone in his class his friends that he was seeing me when i didnt want anyone to now and stay quiet about it because he cant keep his mouth closed and then a friend of his asked him in class was he taking me to his christmas party, and he siad to him in class because a friend of mine heard this , he siad no were histry fair enough i knew that but why did he have to be so mean about it? and then he sends me a text on christmas day wishing me a happy christmas and new year, why would he send me a text message when were history and he called me one night when he was drunk and it seemed he left a stupid message on my phone what i dont understand is i never contacted the guy and i dont want anything to do with him, im trying to get on with my life and its like if he wont leave me alone but he has stopped talking to me now what can i do for him to leave me alone? it seems that hes just trying trying to hurt me when he was the one that dumped me, i never really even liked why why is he trying to hurtt mwe i wonder? because it is geting me down, it has been going on for months now but i decided im just going to ingore him, but its going to be hard when i have to see him every day if anyone can help please with this problem? do please and lads as well thanks.
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reader, Learner.uk  +, writes (13 January 2011):
 Hi,
From what I can tell he is just trying to play games and get to you, you are doing the rite thing by not being in contact with him. What you need to do is just be your self go out with friends and have some fun with them, if you act mature about the whole situation he will be the one looking like an idiot.
He may have just been polite over christmas by sending you a message as its christmas but anything else now you can ignore.
If he keep's following you around etc then you might have to say something to him like "please leave me alone I have moved on and you need to do the same". It is going to be hard seeing him everyday but you will get over it and If anything like this happens in the future you will have the knowledge and experience to handle your self.
Be positive about your self and just show your not bothered by the situation even if you are inside, hopefully he will then get bored and that will be that.
Hope this help's and good luck.
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