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writes:Im a torn between two men and its so confusing! My ex wants me back and a new man does to but hes wiv someone. I was with my ex 3 yrs on/off but bascially we keep spilting up cos i want more in the relationship. Hes always going off doing things by himself with his mates we dont spend enough time together as a couple. Wiv never lived together just seeing each other 3-4 times a wk. And i need more he dont live in the same town and hes seems to have commitment issues! We keep getting back together though as he promises me and it never happens i do truely believe that he loves me! Then theres this other man. Want to settle down. Have kids. Hes funny we get on great. Totally my type and i really like him. Problem is he wiv someone! Theyve only been together a few months but he says he want to leave her for me! I wish he would cos i think we would be good together! And then it would seal where im going! Otherwise i will hope that my ex will come up trumps deep down though i cant see it! I just feel i waitiing around and always waiting around it makes my head spin.dont know what to do! Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): Your ex doesn't sound a good bet because it never worked before, you weren't getting what you wanted from him.
The other one is with someone who could get hurt. How do you know he will leave her for you? He might want both. You could call his bluff, say ok leave her and I will think about it. If he objects, he would rather have someone than noone, in which case it makes you wonder whether he's particular.
It sounds a bit like you want men who aren't available. I should look into that, ask yourself why. Are you afraid of something? Or was there something in your past that caused you to be like this.
Hope this helps. Respect yourself and don't accept second best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): I don't see either of these working out - neither of them is that in to you to give you the time and attention that you deserve.
what is your ex's commitment problems? why did you split?
otherwise it looks like you will spend a long time waiting. in the meantime the clock ticks on...
Star.x.
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