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writes:okay so im definately in love with my boyfriend (J?) lol. and im pretty sure he loves mee too. but wen he does or says something to upset me im always too scared to talk about it. how do i get myself more comfortable to express my feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2011): hii...
if someone in your family or one of your really close friends does something to upset you, do you let them know about it??? my guess is probably yes...because as humans, we simply cannot be tolerant of everything and everyone all the time. i could be totally wrong here, but i get the feeling that maybe you're afraid to let him know that he has upset you because you're afraid to lose him. if this is the case, don't be afraid of this at all--if he really and truly loves you, then he's going to stick around. my advice is to just put on your big-girl panties (sorry, i couldn't resist saying that...hahaa) and flat-out tell him when he has offended/upset you. if you don't ever let him know when he hurts you, think of what that could potentially do to your relationship. you deserve to be happy...and telling someone about the things that make you UNhappy is a pretty good way to achieve happiness. ")
good luck, and God bless,
~sarsar~
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