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writes:hi Anne, i am 20 years old now and have been very confused with my sexuality.hope you can help me out.well my story goes this way... i was about 7 maybe when i had my first physical relationship with another guy. i was kind of feminine and also loved wearing my sister's clothes. later for better eduction i was sent to hostels. i was 8 then. though the school was co-ed but separate provisions were made for students of 11 years and above. in the boy's hostel the oral sex became much more often. initially i didn't like it but later on i kind of developed a liking.i changed that school for other reasons and thanked god that i could start all over from the beginning but i couldn't. in later years i made many one night stands. i want to stop all of it and be "straight" but i cant focus at all. i have been researching about gays for quite a lot of time and i know that its not a disease but i cant control my feelings.if there's a way to turn me back "straight" then please help me out cuz i'm too afraid to come out. my parents and family wont understand if i do so. this pain in my life has been eating me up all years. so please help me out.... :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2010): You probably can't "turn back" straight because you never have been straight. You were probably born gay so working towards acceptance will serve you better than trying to become something you are not, never have been and never will be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): I can't empathise but can sympathise with you here.
My uncle is gay and he had problems coming out as well, but his parents took it fine. Are you sure they won't understand or are you just worrying too much?
You said you researched about gays and you know that it isn't a disease, keep that attitude! My friend got teased and picked on becuase of it and began to see himself as inhuman and wrong. He's fine with it now but if you let this happen it really won't help with your self eesteem.
No way to 'make you' straight again,but are you sure you are gay and not just bisexual?
Hope this helped but if it didn't sorry for wasting your time.
Good luck and I'm sure that one way or another it will be ok.
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reader, pril  +, writes (5 January 2010):
I'm sorry to tell u but there is no way to turn u striaght. If u tell them then your life may be easyer. Yeah it may be hard for your family at first but they love u.
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