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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:I would just like a bit of relationship advice from anyone that has been through a similar situation. I met this guy about 3/4 years ago just after I came out of a relationship. He had just come out of a relationship too. We started seeing eachother and he was constantly texting/calling me and always wanting to see me. At the time I did not want a relationship so we were just casually seeing eachother. After months of this i wanted more but he said he still had feelings for his ex. So i didn't pursue it. But then when i was out he would always come talk to me, phone me at weekends but still never wanted anymore. This was going on for ages (i know im stupid) but i liked him and i think he prob knew that and would play on it. Then i found somone else but we broke up a month or 2 ago. This guy has been texting me again, coming over (no sex) telling me all the things he loves about me (when he's drunk)reminiscing about what we used to do. but then if i text him or call him he hardly ever responds!! which makes me feel so stupid! I really dont understand him!! Do u think he just wants to carry on playing the field? should i just cut him out my life? At the moment i thought we could be mates but i would prob fall for him again. But when I do ignore him he just carrys on and on till i text him back or meet for a drink then i dont hear from him again for ages! Anyone out there offer any advice??
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (1 June 2009):
 I think that you should keep away from him. You are very vunerable at the moment and he is well aware about how you feel about him. I think he is probably quite keen on you but is also getting a tremendous ego boost from dealing with you as he knows how much you like him. I would at the moment keep him as a friend and at arms length romantically. There is a good chance that at some stage he will feel the same as you but I would play it cool at the moment. You are probably still grieving over your last relationship and these things however they ended take a while to heal. Treat him as a buddy at the mo. Good luck!
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