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I'm suddenly insecure about my size!

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Question - (12 December 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 December 2008)
A male age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have a penis size of about 4.8" in length and 4.5" in girth. I'm a very malnutritioned guy at 19 years, really skinny. I'm wondering if exercise would have any effect on my size?

I'm pretty much new to this 'penis envy' thing, I never really even had a slight thought about it whatsoever until I actually looked it up out of curiousity and suddenly I'm feeling extremely insecure.

As a note It doesn't really help when I keep hearing people say "at least there's oral" after an assurance - which pretty much negates the initial assurance.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008):

So basically you've got a dick about the same size as a small jar of Sharwood's mango chutney?

Perfectly adequate I'd say.

A scouring powder tin with a sheep's heart on top isn't always the most appealing attribute in a man. Some women just don't have the capacity to accommodate something like that, and if you possessed such a magnificent specimen you'd only be able to use about half of it before it hit bottom.

be thankful for what you've got - at least it's more than 2"

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A male reader, Blackjack99 Ireland +, writes (12 December 2008):

I wouldnt say exercise will have no effect on your penis size but it will effect your blood pressure libido and heart rate which will and this is fact improve your erection by making it harder stronger and maybe slightly larger 'feeling' to a women during sex plus as an added bonus it dosent shrink in the cold as much with the improved circulation caused by exercise.

I wouldnt worry bout it too much as long as you can use it right i have a mate with a tiny penis (not that yours is) and from what i hear from his partners he really knows what he is doin so they dont care. Its more an ego thing with men then a thing women dislike.

For example you wont dislike a girl because her tits are only average....etc

Hope this helps

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008):

Dont worry about something like this...nearly 5" is about average ! If you get to the point were a girl see's your penis then she already wants you! As long as u know what your doing then you'll be able to satisfy her. Some sex postition can allow you to go deeper in therefore giving the same feeling as a large penis. At the end of the day only very few guys have a large penis...although if u ever talk about this with a group of lads most will claim they are these "few lucky" guys lol. Girls prefer guys that are average sizd but know what thy're doing rather than large but with no idea! So stay confident and have a good time!!

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (12 December 2008):

baddogbj agony auntNothing that can be done about it other than coming to terms with it. Fact is that it will matter to some women and not to others. It's a big world and there are hundreds of millions of lovely girls who will be perfectly happy with what you've got.

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A male reader, Danielepew Mexico +, writes (12 December 2008):

Danielepew agony auntWe all worry about our appearance, and that is good, to an extent, because that is what makes us trim our nails, cut our hair and bathe. We all would like to be absolutely attractive to everyone, but that just can't be. We need to accept ourselves as we are.

Exercise wouldn't enlarge your penis, and, frankly, I doubt anything would. If something really worked, everyone would use it.

It's best to accept your size, in penis or whatever, and then enjoy yourself. Learn how to use your penis, and that's it.

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