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writes: I'm still in love with my ex and he still loves me but my parents wont let us be together so they had me marry one of the friends of the familys sons but i dont love him, what do i do or is it to late?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 I have little to no knowledge of the cultures that arrange marriages and make their daughters marry someone they don't love. If you can stand up to your family without being shot, then by all means get out of this marriage as soon as you can. Everyone deserves their best chance at happiness. Whatever you do, don't get pregnant before you have a chance to end the marriage. Good luck!
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reader, camille  +, writes (8 August 2006):
 It's not too late but you run the risk of losing your family. Either way you'll have something that makes you very unhappy in life, but if you chose love, lets' hope it lasts as it's a big sacrifice to make. That said, when a family arrange a marriage, they have taken your freedom of choice. It will be a case of what is worth more to you and what will make you most fulfilled and happy. Also consider any implications if this marraige was a religious decision.
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