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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am friends with my ex-fiance of 9 years and I am in a serious relationship now. But when it comes to talking or seein my ex, my boyfriend gets so furious and upset and it is costing our relationship! What should I do?
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reader, hlskitten  +, writes (7 November 2007):
 Hi
Difficult one.
On the one hand a current boyfriend will always take priority with me but on the other hand i wont be told i cant be in touch with exes or anyone. If i was suppose to be with an ex i would be, so i would tell him to put up or shut up basically if i was you.
In an ideal world none of us would get on with exes but its not an ideal world and as long as there is no relationship going on, dont feel guilty! They are friends afterall! Thats way too controlling.
Good luck.
C xxxxx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Your ex is your ex and should not be part of your new relationship PERIOD. Decide who u want and stick with that person. You can not have both, sorry.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): its simple, cut ties with the ex. there is a reason you two arent married or together.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): hi i know exactly how your guy feels,because im in the same dilema exept my guy talks to all his x`s and it really hurts inside,i also gave him an ultimatum and he choose me,but i know he does it behind my back and still denies it when i have confronted him but as far as i can see he has got to live with that hes got guilt written all over himself an for the sake of women he says he has no interest in,im neither blind or stupid an neither is your boyfriend
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): You should ask yourself is being mates with your ex really worth losing this great guy over?? or is her a great guy??
You have to do whatis right by you,,,,,Tink who is more important being mates with your ex or your now boyfriend.
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reader, indibob +, writes (7 November 2007):
if you are serious about making this work, you need to cut ties with your ex unless there are children involved.
You have moved on.... but your new guy is wondering if you really have. Give him an answer
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