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I'm starting to think that I'm falling for any guy who gives me attention, why is that, and what do you think about this guy I'm falling for now??

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Question - (28 December 2007) 6 Answers - (Newest, 7 January 2008)
A female United States age 18-21, lady doom writes:

i think im getting attached to this new guy. i am starting to think that my cousin is right...i am falling for any guy who gives me attention. well the thing is that he is engaged and yet he is flirtying with me, saying that i always will have a place in his heart and that kinda stuffff...and theres this age gap he's 26 and 17 do u think it is wrong for us to continue...we r volunteers(i wont say where) so everybody hangs out there..so he was once siting across me and then said hey come sit beside me i want to tell u something...so i said u want me u come..so then his guyfriends say oww and stuff like that than he says dunt wanna say it anymore and acted sad...then tried it again but i said no..then he actually came and wanted to sit beside me but i said no then he actually left...after a while he came and sat beside me...i am new there, but hes been a while there so he the leader of a group..so he says dont u wanna exchane to my group(we being regrouped after newyear)...i said no, then he says i will change u with out u acceptance and then u know who it goes..i kept saying no..so anyways do u think he likesme..or is it just a thing guys do before they get married??plz help me!

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A female reader, lady doom United States +, writes (7 January 2008):

lady doom is verified as being by the original poster of the question

see well the thing is it is more than just volunteer...its the first time i actually have a social life!! its the place where ppl go to socialize...and before it i used to have no social life...and besides i have this urge to find me a guy...i know he's not the right one since he's engaged and all..sometime i wonder if there's something wrong with me that no guys has asked me out!!

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A female reader, lady doom United States +, writes (4 January 2008):

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dont worry about it! we all make mistakes, but can u help me with MY problem?? i might be seeing him tomorrow and i need to know how to act with him??

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A female reader, lady doom United States +, writes (3 January 2008):

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ok thx...thats good to know, i guess, that he wouldnt choose anyone and that he somehow likes me. but heres another question, should i agree to be moved to his group...i mean they are planning to change the grouping soon and he is the head to a group/day. he is always saying that he wants to move me although i say i dont want..then he says eventhough u dont want ill move u anyways!! so what do u think i should do??

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A female reader, maddierose Ireland +, writes (31 December 2007):

maddierose agony auntit is quite normal for men to try and get in one last flirt before they are officailly not allowed to anymore. but they dont flirt with just anyone, they still choose someone they have intrest in, so i would say he both likes you AND wantsn to get in a regular flirt befoper his marraige.

happy new year

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A female reader, lady doom United States +, writes (31 December 2007):

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ok thx for the gr8 advice! but why would he flirt with me when he engaged?? is that normal for men?? or does he like me??

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A female reader, maddierose Ireland +, writes (29 December 2007):

maddierose agony aunthe could just like u as a friend but it sounds like he does like u in a different way. but think about it. he can't be such a nice guy because he is meant to be getting married and is flirting with someone much younger. then again u cant help who you fall for. and i would say try and find out. but u have been doing the right thing by not encouraging him in any way.

=)

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