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*enee8205
writes:Well, theres this guy I've been seeing. We started seeing eachother in like early april. Then at the end of may, i suddenly didnt hear from him, so I was wondering what was going on. So after a week of not hearing from him, I found him on myspace, and asked whats the problem. He writes me telling me his ex is 3 months pregnant and he just found out and that someone stole his phone(he lied because I know he doesnt have a comp, and he was on myspace on his iphone). So I was like ok, wish him the best blah blah. Although I didnt appreciate having to find him on myspace. Anyway a couple months down the road, i seen his profile on this app for iphones/ipods. And so I messaged him saying hi, as to how I didnt wana be childish. And so, he was telling me how the girl was seeing someone else so he kicked her out, was she pregnant with his kid, i dont know. But me and him spent our labor day together, and I enjoyed that day. We've gotten back together.And you know how you would start slowly feeling yourself falling in love with someone, well it was like that. and we have been going on dates and spending qaulity time jus watching a movie in the house. And hes leaving for japan in a few days. its like he growing distant. Things like me running my fingers thru his hair used to be okay, and now hes like stop it its annoying him.Also, we were recently on a date, and he was on the fone and told whoever he was talkin to he was with a friend right now. So i told him to take me to get my car and im leaving. And Im really upset and its bothering me. He acts like its okay if he tells whoever im a friend, but if i say it, he says its because i dont wna be with him. its only so much more of this nonesense i can take. I dont wna argue with him, i grew up around arguing and i hate it. but i am so sick of having this change of him on my mind. I dont know what do.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 October 2010):
 Ok well he lied first off and you should have got to the bottom of it before you started dating again and ask him what really happened. It sounds like this guy doesnt know what he wants, or else he is still in love with his ex and he cant move on, either way you deserve better, a relationship is meant to be about affection and showing your other half of, but he is keeping you a secret when he is referring to you as a friend and i would question this as it sounds suspitious and he doesnt want people knowing he is seeing you. you need to talk to him and ask him were you stand with him tell him this is really got to change and that he either wants to be with you or not
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