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writes: hello, i just feel like a total loser at the moment, i'm at uni and feeling really lonely. my boyfriend is at a different uni and he has loads of friends and i just seem to get more and more paranoid that he doesnt need me or hes cheating on me. i only see him every couple of weeks and i always spend that time being paranoid. ive tried making friends but everyone at this uni is lame. i seem to be putting too much pressure on my boyfriend and call him all the time but i just feel im being a nuisance. help, im so insecure x
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2006): Sit down and have a talk with your boyfriend. Ask him in a non-confrontational way about what he's up to. You may find that he is just out having fun with the boys and it's really nothing to worry about. If he acts suspiciously, or seems defensive about you asking, though, worry. He should be happy to share his stories if he's done nothing wrong. Try making some friends of your own and being happy that you're boyfriend is happy. He still wants to be with you if he's been with you long. You could always ask him how he feels about the relationship. It couldn't hurt. Just remember to remain objective and non-confrontational. I hope everything works out okay for you. Good luck!
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