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writes:What do you do when your so frustrated? I'm so frustrated and depressed!!!!! I can't pass my driving test. It may be a small matter, but right now it's big to me. I was in college, I have a 3.0 gpa but I have to push it back because I'm so tired. If I go to school I would have to take 8 buses a day. 2 buses to work, and 2 back home. Than 2 buses to school and 2 back home. I take 4 buses to get to and from work. I want to cry and give up so bad. I'm all alone. I have no help. I failed my driving test for the 2nd time today. Everyone keeps telling me to get more practice BUT I have no car to get practice in! My dad is the only person with a car but he won't let me use his car to get my license in or practice so I had to pay a driving teacher. I only work part time but I managed to save up enough money for the car of my dreams the tags and a driving teacher. I'm a good driver! But this driving test is holding me back. Its like I did all that hard work for nothing. I didn't party, date, or shop. I just saved all my money and it feels like it was a waste. I had a boring birthday for the second year in a row and I didn't do anything because I didn't have a car, I just Went to work and came home and watch tv :-( I'm starting to feel like I don't deserve a car. I want to get pretty and treat myself but I won't be completely happy if I have to wait on my friend to take me to buy a dress etc. If I get more practice I have to pay of course. I paid again today for my driving teacher, but I don't think I did good. I'm under pressure because school is next month and I still don't have my car on the road. Than I was thinking about how horrible my birthday was yet again!!! I just wonder why I always have to go through things. I'm just so frustrated and nobody understands me. :-( sorry if I keep blabbering.....
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys for replying.
Im trying to calm down and not be so hard on myself, but its hard. Im trying to look at the small things, i am happy that im doing good. But im tired of riding the bus and i only work part time. Its super hot too. And than School is so close. I want to finish and graduate soon.
And the first time i took the driving test, i can admit i wasnt ready! But the second time, i failed because i back out and drove over the yellow line. I was hurt because i spent almost 100 bucks that day. I had to pay for my driving teacher car and the test. Im trying but i dont know..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2013): I know how you feel!! It took me 6 attempts to pass my test & when I did pass the examiner said " I drove beautifully" & he had no idea why I failed so many times before! It was due to nerves but believe me your hard work will pay off!
My friend passed on her 9th attempt- she failed for silly things like reversing to close to a kerb or reverse parking- all things in my opinion you perfect with in time!
Keep persevering & you will do it! X
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reader, Helloduckiexox +, writes (28 August 2013):
 Hello,
Take it easy on yourself. I have somewhat know how you feel. I agree it sucks to be in your position . You are working towards your goals and further plans and that is a positive feedback.
Don't look at the big picture. Look at the small details, like what is happening during your driving test. Be aware
If you ever need a helping hand. I will gladly help you and talk you through .
But not to late lol
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