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I'm so confused, do I go with my gay friend or find somone who's straight?

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Question - (24 September 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 28 September 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, *an'tchoose writes:

Don't know what to do. I am in love with a good friend. We have done stuff before but I don't think he is gay, at least he will never say anything about it. I am afraid to say anything to him in fear of ruining our friendship.

I keep waiting for that one day we end up together, but i don't think it will happen. Should I continue to wait for him? or go down the straight road and try to find a straight mate?

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A male reader, shurup United States +, writes (28 September 2008):

I dont want to sound rude but you wont find or be with anyone if you don`t talk to them . Yes you need to be asking your sorta gay friend what up?It might just work out great!!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2008):

hi..

when you say you've "done stuff", do you mean physical things? being gay isnt as black and white as people think, or atleast i dont think it is. i really want to give you advice and help you out, however your comment confuses me slightly. in the heading it says he is your gay friend, but in the actual comment it says you dont think he's gay. please help me to understand this, and i can try to help you better. if you would like to, you can email my agony aunt account and i will be able to help you with this issue alot quicker, as sometimes the replies we put on here can take a while to come through for you to read. by writing the question again answering the questions i have asked above to make it clearer, you can just send it to my account, and the question you have written for any agony aunt or uncle to answer stays on the page anyway so you can still read other people's responses. either way, please make the problem a bit easier to understand for us so that we can help you.

aaj =)

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