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I'm so confused, do I go with my gay friend or find somone who's straight?

Q.   Don't know what to do. I am in love with a good friend. We have done stuff before but I don't think he is gay, at least he will never say anything about it. I am afraid to say anything to him in fear of ruining our friendship. I keep waiting for ...

A.   28 September 2008: I dont want to sound rude but you wont find or be with anyone if you don`t talk to them . Yes you need to be asking your sorta gay friend what up?It might just work out great!!!... (read in full...)

What should I do about my attraction towards a male co-worker? I hear he was into guys before.

Q.   Hey everyone who is taking the time to read this. This is my first posting and I kind of really need some advice. I am beggining to have a huge attraction for a co worker of mine. I knew I was into guyz before but I never actually had feelings for ...

A.   28 September 2008: yep i know this game...you think im not ,so i act like im not , he acts like he is not because no never. Sorry i lost myself but you got it just think "Risk" never take one. If you never take a "Risk" you will end up depressed and sad until you do.I ... (read in full...)

If a guy likes both men and women, but likes men more, is he confused?

Q.   I am just wondering.. if a guy came out as gay..then realised he liked women as well but is more on the gay side...then comes out as "bisexual" do you think he is confused?the guy i am talking about used to be gay but now he is bi.. he seems to...

A.   28 September 2008: Thats my boyfriend ha ha ,and i guess yes he is just that way. I have always wonder tho because we are from the 70s and all that he thinks "bi" is/was a safer coming out term? I am sorta fem and he likes women {he was married once too}so yes very ... (read in full...)

What did he mean by this 'spanking' message? Should I ask him about it?

Q.   I was talking to a very intimate friend (possibly was a bf pref) early this morning we were casually flirting and sending pictures over msn, and just normal casual stuff, then he sent me a message saying oh yes send me that picture and i'll spank ...

A.   28 September 2008: Talk ,talk,talk if you don`t you will always wish you did. You know what they say, if you want me to be closer to you be closer to me.... (read in full...)

What's the secret question?

Q.   What is the "Secret Question" to ask a stranger if they are gay?...

A.   28 September 2008: Well ok here it is this is what you need to ask "do you have a hint of mint?" i heard this somewhere and i thought that is the funnest thing i ever heard but it might work ....so umm Do you sir have a hint of mint?... (read in full...)

I moved in with my gay lover... And the sex moved out

Q.   I am gay and have been living with my boyfriend for the past six months. Ever since we moved in together sex has been almost a thing of the past. He just doesn't seem that interested any more. It is so frustrating! When sex does finally occur it...

A.   28 September 2008: Hi, i think this might be "older question"? Anyways i am gay and this type of thing has also happened to me/us. Just a guess it might be medical, that was me i take pain meds and did not know how much my libedo would drop off. So that might be ... (read in full...)

My Boyfriend Is Pulling Away...

Q.   If anyone has advice or is in a similar situation, I would really appreciate your comments or feedback. I've been with my boyfriend for a year a few months - and believe me, it has been a rocky relationship. We sort of got off to a rocky start: w...

A.   13 September 2008: I have a problem that is sorts like yours so I feel your pain girl. Well let's talk about you first , boy I'm really worried about you two. Wish I had a way to look into the future , doesn't it seem like this is all about his feelings? After reading ... (read in full...)

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