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*arkhawk9
writes:Well anyways im 6 foot 11 and 19 years old around 180-190 pounds to be honest quite skinny. ive only had around 4 girlfriends and im scared to put myself out there mainly because of my height. any suggestions or comments would be appreciated on what i should do or what ever? i always walk a little slump just because im ashamed of my height sometimes i'll stand straight up and i know i should prob walk with more confidents thanks again darkhawk9 Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): My fiance is almost as tall as you. I can't imagine ever dating a short/average guy again. He makes me feel so petite and safe. I love it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): tall guys make girls feel safe! also the heels thing... being tall is fine... my mom is 5'1" and my dad is 6'10" and they're perfectly fine
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reader, Red591 +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Tall girls have such a hard time finding a guy. I'm not tall but I can't date a guy shorter than me. Just how it is. Imagine how hard it is for a girl like me who is 6'2". She would be on you like white on rice. Be happy cause u are some tall hottie's dream guy
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Trance made a good point that I forgot: women wear heels. And we don't like to be taller than our boyfriends. So you being tall is only a good thing.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (22 September 2010):
Be proud of your height. That is the best thing I can tell you. It looks horrible when tall people slouch over and walk like old men. It just looks horrible, and you know we can still see that you are tall, so it doesn't do you any favours.
Women love tall men. But most of all we love men who are confident and like themselves. For a man, being tall is only a bonus. It will draw attention to you, and many women will notice you. Which is a good thing. The more women who notice you, the better chances you have at getting in touch with women. Also, if you are abnormally tall, women have the perfect conversation starter, and that makes it a lot easier to come up and talk to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): From my experience, women hate confident men. They'd rather be attracted to jerks and piece them together than deal with a real man who has his head and d*** screwed on tightly. They like a challenge I guess and that logic fails me so dont worry about walking around like a badass. On the other hand, women love tall big guys cause they feel protected. Women need a sense of security and safety. Some women argue they can handle their own crap. Im sure they can. But when it comes down to it pal, they like a beast standing next to them. Im only 6'3" 230 and ppl consider me tall. Im sure youre a humble guy and dont like all the attention which can make you feel like a freak cause you literally stick out. Dont let it. People who stare are probably impressed and some guys are jealous. Heck, I get teased by short guys all the time about my height cause they wish they had it. AND...when I talk to girls theyre like "at least I can wear heels when Im with you" lol. Keep your head up bud. You carry yourself with your attitude, not your body.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (22 September 2010):
 Your right you should walk with more confidence. Girls love confident guys.
Dont be ashamed of who you are, when two people really love each other then it doenst really matter how they look.
Dont give up looking there will be someone out there for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): Ashamed!? Know this, lovely, women LOVE tall men. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2010): What are you worried about? I thought men were SUPPOSED to be tall, and the taller the better... There are many tall women out there who cannot find tall guys because all the short women steal them... so ask a tall woman out.
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