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writes:I am with a great guy but no worry we dont plan on sex right now. Not until I'm 16 and then for the right guy but im just scared i will never lose it. I am scared about pregnecy and the first time and everything. Really it is because if i want to do it before i leave my house i dont want to get my parents involed as they dont want me to have sex until like marraige. Help please! Reply to this Question
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 Too many young girls give in to men too quickly. My advice to you is to respect yourself and your body. Don't just "give" yourself to the first man you get the hots for. You seem to be sensible though and have a good head on your shoulders love. When you feel the time IS right then go to your GP and ask to be put on the pill or some other form of contraception. They would never breach your confidentiality and once you turn 16 you don't need your parents consent. Do what you think is right for you, never be pushed into having sex if you don't feel ready for it.
You will lose your virginity when you're ready and when you do, you want it to be memorable, something you can look back on, I'm sure it will happen when the time is right. As for your parents not wanting you to lose it until you're married....? Aren't all parents protective of their kids, especially their daughters so that's only natural.
Eve
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (30 January 2007):
 First, I admire you for waiting until you feel ready. Many people these days get pressured into sex at an early age by friends or partners.
To address your concerns about pregnancy I would like to recommend that you use a condom. Not only does it will it help you to avoid pregnancy, but it also protects you against sexually transmitted diseases (not that I think your boyfriend has any, but it's always good to be careful).
Pills are also an option as they ensure you won't become pregnant, but they won't protect you against diseases.
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