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writes:I met a guy 2 years ago in a business and he's military. When we met we became friends and then split to his base and family.Two months after that we became in contact for the same business. Turned out we started keeping in touch by email even by long distance. Our emails are of being friends and he says he enjoys our friendship and communications. That is really great that I keep in touch with him.We share jokes, pics of ourselves ( I've tried for him to share family pics but no luck for now, I hope he will soon in the holidays). He says he loves his family and I believe him, but at the same time he's caring , gentle and seems to lighten up when I email. We even communicate while he's deployed. But, he's respectable.I don't know, if I'm over thinking it or if I should be aware this could become something else from his part, since I think his wife doesn't know about me. I like his friendship and would like to know his family, but that's why I'm asking, don't know what to think really?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): What adds to your emotional involvement is the mystery that you attach to this guy. Turn on yourself more and make friends with others, explore other interests or worthwhile activities. The other posters are right in reminding you that you are just setting yourself for heartaches once you get involved with a married man. Think of his wife and kids also who will be affected if you pursue this guy and a relationship develops.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 November 2008): Ditto!! I agree with all the other answers. Are you that nieve to think you're just friends having a chat??? Your right his wife probably doesn't know about you. How do you think she would feel if she found out? How would you feel, if it was reversed??? As someone previously said, YOU ARE PLAYING WITH FIRE! Women who go for married men, need to get a life!
Try to take a look at your reasons for keeping this going! Why? What do you hope to gain? All this can cause is Pain! Leave him alone and move on!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 November 2008): Don't go down this road. You are playing with fire. If you know he is married, leave him alone. Read some of the postings on this site and you will realize how much hurt and pain is caused to innocent spouses by cheating partners. Often it starts very innocent and ultimately it creates lots of damage.
Be careful of emotional infidelity.
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (20 November 2008):
 You have no business being friends with a married man or asking to meet his family.
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