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male
age
41-50,
*hrispy
writes:My Girlfriend of 3.5 years broke up with me and said she wants to be single but she also belives that one day we will be together again. i know the only way i will be ok is if i forget her completely, but i feel like if i do i will never be able to be with her again. I'm screwd
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reader, Manya +, writes (8 February 2007):
chrispy, you have my total sympathy! How long have you been broken up? Maybe a little while of being single, she'll come to miss you, because you sound like a real nice guy who is slow to move on because you know when you do, you really do, which means that when you are in your relationship, you are intense. I feel sorry for her for losing you!
I don't know what you should do, maybe talk to her one more time. Maybe she is confused, too, and having regrets.
Keep your head on your shoulders.
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reader, Jovial  +, writes (8 February 2007):
 Dear chrispy
i know it is hard to let go, but for to let her leave her life is to let her go, remember that all the memories you share will stay with you forever and can never be forgotten so that is what you can hold onto. sometimes it is easier to let the other part live as they please because if we emotionally blackmail them into staying in the relationship you might end up enemies and all the hopes and dreams you wish to rekindle in future will be forgotten. focus on your job, hobbies, friends and family. dont forget to go back to the market while at it, you cant put your life in order not to forget her, she might not come back. good luck
jovial
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