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writes:I know how common this question is. I met this girl about 4-5 months ago and I can’t stop thinking about her and I really do feel like I love her but I’m pretty sure she only thinks of me as a friend and its driving me crazy. Every day we talk in the morning on the phone and steal text messages to each other at school (I had to erase them 2 times so far and my phone can hold 400 text messages) then after school we spend 4 to 6 hours week days together and 12 hours on most weekends. And practically everyone we talk to by the end of the conversation says we love each other. And I’m always offering to do things for her. Hers the part that makes me think she only considers us friends. every time people say we love each other she gets mad or annoyed, and every time I try to direct the conversation to being a couple she immediately... I don’t know what happens it’s some magic thing about her but she is able to turn the conversation another way and by the time I realize what happened it’s an hour later. I don’t know what to do at this point I want to tell her how I really feel like but I also have a stuttering problem and it only acts up when I try to ask her out. I don’t know what to do at this point I feel like every time I think about her then remember I can’t be “with” her I just get really depressed like I died inside (die inside is kind of dramatic but I can’t explain it any other way). I just don’t know what to do at this point, sorry for saying “I don’t know what to do at this point” so much but I really don’t. Thank You
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionok
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (2 November 2010):
 You needn't fear rejection. If she says she does not feel the same way, there is no reason why you two cannot carry on being the best of friends. Be casual if she does not reciprocate those feelings, pretend it never happened.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks il consider trying that, i never thought of it. still scared to hell about rejection but im shoure every one feels like that. thanks for the idea again
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael +, writes (2 November 2010):
I am sure this is simple. If you cannot tell her, write to her. A handwritten letter is more personal and if you hand it to her, no one else has to know if she does not feel the same way.
I know it may seem as though she does not feel the same way but if she truly felt nothing but friendship, would she honestly act so drastically when the topic of 'couples' occurs? I suspect she just might feel something but, I cannot be sure. Still I think it best you tell her in one way or another. She probably knows how you feel, just make it clear that you wish to know how she feels about you.
I hope that helps.
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