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female
age
16-17,
anonymous
writes:so theres this boy...he is absolutely amazing and he's my best friend. He moved away because he got in some trouble almost two years ago now. well when he does get to come home to visit he acts like were together. which really doesn't bother me because I'm interested in him a lot. I'm a junior in high school and I have known him since 7th grade and I really do love him he's my best friend...but the last time he was home, before he left we had sex. I know he loves me and cares about me but before he left he told me that he didn't know what he wanted and when he got home he just wanted to get his life back and see what happened from there...but still told me he loved me and cried to me about how much he was going to miss me...so I'm pretty confused! any advice as to what I should say or do?? thanx a lot!
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reader, purple1234  + ♥, writes (10 May 2008):
 he sounds confused about what he really wants, like he needs to fix his life up a bit before he can be with anyone in a r/ship, he might love u and care for u, but he sounds like he is giving u mixed messages and confusing you, messing with your head a bit. maybe keep things at a friendship level for the moment, or keep a distance if u find that hard. do u want to be with someone who really doesn't know what they want? you want them to love u for real, not maybe! let him work out his stuff first, and if he really loves u when he is thinking clearly well, see maybe how things go then, slowly.. good luck.
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