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I'm open to going further but he won't take the lead

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Question - (21 May 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 May 2012)
A female United States age 26-29, *.C. writes:

I just started dating my dream guy and every thing is going amazing! But we have been going about for about a month now and i would like to go a little further with him. But every time we get into this conversation i would always maybe ask him what he would want to do. But he would always say it's up to me! I can tell that he wants to do more with me but he's just like me, he doesn't want to say what it is...So any tips or advice you have for me I'm totally open to it!! Thank you

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A male reader, RAINORFIRE United States +, writes (22 May 2012):

RAINORFIRE agony auntThe age of consent varies by state and country. its not 18 everywhere.

for the op judging by your age it sounds like your bf probably doesn't know what to do. and hes probably a little scared to take it any further.

i suggest being more direct tell him exactly what you would like to do and ask him if he wants to do it... basically yes or no questions not open ended ones that can be turned back on you.

but at your age i would advise against any sexual escapades

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