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writes: my boyfriend told me if i didnt get rid of his baby he would throw me down the stairs. i finished him because i was scared and even though i love him i dont want him to hurt me or my baby. he has been gettin his friends to ring my mobile. im only 14 what should i do. please help me. no1 else is interested!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2007): Your boyfriend isn't prepared to become a dad, which isn't surprising as you are both so young. Never get back with him and as for his mates ringing your mobile change your number (by getting rid of the sim), getting a new sim and throw the old sim away. Then don't tell your boyfriend or his mates your new number. As for your unborn baby you need to consider these options with your parents.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (7 April 2007):
 You are 14 and need support. Your boyfriend is using emotional abuse as a method of controlling you as he is terrified about becoming a father (if he is your age he should be!). That is no excuse for frightening you but you have to realise you don't love him...basically you have to love yourself and your baby more. Any male who disrespects you with such threats of domestic violence needs psychological help - look on him as a sperm donor rather than long-term partner. YOu need to stay away from him, change your mobile phone number, store his threatening messages and take them to the police who can stop him harrassing you. However, the first priority is your health and you need to see a midwife and a doctor. You also need support - family, teachers, counsellors - find someone understanding to help you at this difficult time.
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