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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've recently started University, and have been in (what i consider) a long term relationship (which is around 8 months, but i have known the girl for almost triple that) with the girl i have left back at home - The problem is, that as much as i love this girl, i feel a lot of the time that i want to be single, and generally fool around, i have kissed a few girls since being here, but have managed to keep it to just that. I'm scared that on a drunken night out, this will turn into more, and i will hurt my girlfriend more and more, which is the last thing i want to do. I told her about me kissing another girl before, and we sorted it out. Now i'm having doubts about our relationship again, i would love this meet this girl after University, as she is the perfect girl, and i could quite easily stay with her for a long while, University is just killing our relationship, and subsequently it's ruining my time here. Ahh, Advice?
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reader, Another_Kapiti  +, writes (15 November 2009):
 If on the one hand, you truly love the girl you're with, you should be able to curb any such desires about making out with other girls! I understand that at your age you are at your sexual peak, perhaps going home to visit the girlfriend at Uni holidays is the way to go? Or she comes to visit you? If you think you want to be single again, instead of possibly breaking her heart, you tell her how you feel and suggest that perhaps a long distance relationship isn't really working and that maybe you need some space to make up your mind.
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