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*rimpvarkie
writes:My boyfriend keeps trying to kiss me, but we haven't even been dating a week and I'm not ready for him to kiss me yet, but I don't know how to tell him this without him feeling rejected. He's never kissed a girl before so maybe he's just hasty because he doesn't know about this kind of stuff. How can I explain this to him without hurting his feelings? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2008): I know where your coming from my ex boyfriend wanted to make out I wasn't ready but he kept askiing if we would see people kissing he would be like I want that or why can't we do that he just couldn't understand I told him no I'm not ready no after no after no my advice is tell him your not ready and if he likes slot he will respect that my ex didn't and you now know why he is now called my ex
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reader, dixiegirl  +, writes (15 May 2008):
just tell him your not readey but your a graet guy
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Well you seemed to have done an adequate job here. Tell him just like you told me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2008): Krimpvarkie, I think that you should him that you are not ready to kiss him now and he should wait until you are ready. If he does not respect you and your wishes, then I think it is best that you break up with him before he will do something to you that will get him in trouble. He might be insecure because you said that he never kissed a girl before and he is not sure of himself. Try and talk to him and firmly say that you are not ready to kiss him now. Say this: "You know that I really like you and I care about you, but I can't kiss you right now. I don't want to hurt you, but if you care about me, then you must respect my feelings."
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reader, Chrisj  +, writes (15 May 2008):
Just tell him straight that he doesnt need to rush it and when you are ready to kiss him you intiate it
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