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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): Well if you did what makes you think you're the only person who has?
There are also tonnes of virgins out there too OP.
Now where you will find yourself in trouble perhaps is just because he hasn't done that before doesn't mean he won't or can't do that. It also doesn't mean that's not what he's doing with you. For all you know the next guy you get with who has only had sex in relationships decided after his last break up that he wants meaningless sex and wants that with you and without letting you know that's case.
Direct answer to your question though, yes of course there are guys like that.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (11 March 2013):
 AT your age... sure you can...
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reader, Cantremember  +, writes (11 March 2013):
I often find this question with reversed roles. Where guys are upset about a girls past. And the answer the guys get is generally "let the past be the past".
Do you think a guys past will somehow ruin your relationship with him?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (11 March 2013):
 You write: "I have only ever had sex with people I am dating or in a relationship with. I am the OP btw."
So..... your question is strictly rhetorical, isn't it?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2013): I have only ever had sex with people I am dating or in a relationship with. I am the OP btw.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): Yes! They are out there! Don't give up or settle :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2013): There are quite a few guys like this out there. But they have usually learned not to admit it to women.
Most chaste men aren't depriving themselves of casual sex for fun, its because they feel strongly about it. And that means they usually would like an equally chaste woman. There lies the problem.
Most (non-chaste) women are fine when their date admits to being chaste. But they aren't so happy when he admits he wants a woman like himself too. At best it causes a rift. A lot of times the non-chaste woman treats him like an insecure female oppressing jerk who has personally insulted her. Its not a pleasant experience getting judged for just trying to find out if a person is your type.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (10 March 2013):
It would take you HOURS to read my entire treatise which justifies and validates us guys for our meaningless sex-capades...... so here's the "Reader's Digest" version:
Guys like to put their weenies someplace warm, soft and wet.... Women (all of 'em) have such a place..... Ergo: We seek out that place in women that satisfies that craving....
Chapter 2: There is no connection between our "Mr Happy" and our brains or our hearts.... We ONLY like that soft, warm, wet feeling..... Ergo: We seek out that place in women that satisfies that craving...
There is a REASON why you hear this cliche: Women need a REASON to have sex; Men need only a PLACE....
Happy PS.... not every guy is in concert with the stereotype.... YOUR quest is to find one who ISN'T....
Good luck....
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