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My girlfriend cheated and said she was sorry and never ment to hurt me but now she wants her space?

Q.   My girlfriend for almost 4 years cheated on me.I am still hurt by the fact that it happened. I even started to blame myself. When we first got together i did cheat also and said it was the biggest mistake in my life. I realized that i did not want ...

A.   13 March 2013: Being emotionally distant to you after cheating is pretty harsh. After all you need comforting to move on. She has no reason to be mad at you so my best guess is that it is a selfish move. Meaning she is with someone else. I could be wrong b... (read in full...)

After being together for years I find out something about my wife that has shaken my trust in her to the core! I don't know how to deal with this

Q.   13 years ago, I met a wonderful woman in University who has now been my wife for 8 years. We have kids (with another on the way) and are happy however recently, during a discussion she elaborated on a story of how she hooked with one of her past ...

A.   12 March 2013: I understand how you feel about this as I have been in a similar situation. And no, it doesn't matter if you were technically exclusive or not. This is not some trial where "proof" matters. You don't have a technical issue but an emotional one. Whi... (read in full...)

I'm not interested in dating a man who has had meaningless sex?

Q.   Hi I have a question, basically it is this what are the chances of finding a man who has only had sex exclusively in relationships? I'm not keen on the idea of being with a man who had sex with people without emotions attached. I am also not keen ...

A.   11 March 2013: I often find this question with reversed roles. Where guys are upset about a girls past. And the answer the guys get is generally "let the past be the past". Do you think a guys past will somehow ruin your relationship with him?... (read in full...)

My girlfriend dropped me for her brother and now they're going to get married!

Q.   Hey everyone, I have been a pretty shy guy,not because of any insecurities but that's me! I met this bold outspoken girl who brought me out my shell and I summed up courage and asked her out and she said 'ok' but we weren't exclusive and later on...

A.   10 March 2013: I must honestly say I don't understand why others comment on this being an issue of rejection and how to get over it. This has (to me) very little to do with the girl. It's all about the brother. That's just something brothers don't do. I would not ... (read in full...)

How do I escape this tradition of naming the first born son after their father's father? I don't like the name!

Q.   I am pregnant, 7 months in and its a BOY! I am very happy but at the same time a little sad because my in laws want me to name my son my husbands fathers name because its a Lebanese tradition for the eldest son to take after his fathers name in his ...

A.   6 March 2013: This tradition is very common. How did people escape it here? They made a compromise and moved the traditional name to middle name. Maybe that will work in your case too. ... (read in full...)

Being with a selfish man in bed makes me feel like an unpaid prostitute! Anyone else feel this way?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy a few times, and I think he's nice. He took me out for dinner once and coffee a couple of times. After our coffee date yesterday, we made out a bit in his car before he dropped me home. I saw him again tonight and he did ...

A.   6 March 2013: I don't know if other women feel this way. But he offered to change instead of getting upset. That's something a lot of people would welcome. Was he selfish? Yes. But not giving someone a second chance when they offer isn't ladylike either. Of ... (read in full...)

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