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writes:Hey guys! Im sure this isn't the most important of the questions you will have seen!But I thought id ask anyway...Well im no longer in a relationship. My boyfriend and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. The problem was i was to clingy,but im unsure if this was the real reason,But thats not my real problem im over him, i know that sounds shallow but its just called not holding on to someone.But i have 2 guys after me...I don't rely fancy either but both want me....I feel that i sholdent choose either because im not attracted to them is this the right thing to do morally???
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reader, MuiMuiAngie  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 I think that its the right thing to do. If you went out with either of them, you might end up leading them on a bit, and then they'd get hurt. Have you told them that you're not attracted to them in that way? If you've not, you could say that you just got out of a relationship. But you need to tell them that you don't like them in the same way so they're not just hanging on to false hope. Hope this helps! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): That is the right thing to do.
What's the point in going out with someone you don't find attractive. Wait for someone you do like. I wouldn't work out with these guys.
Good Luck.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 I would say that YES, not choosing any of them is the right thing to do. It should make you proud to think this way. You may not have "the physical perks" of a relationship for a while, but you won't give anyone false hope, either. I think the world would be a much better place, and Dear Cupid wouldn't have that many reasons to exist, if we all thought about the effect of what we do on others.
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