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Can I find happiness with our age difference?

Q.   I am posting this question for a second time -as I have left out some important details the first time around. I am currently married for 16 years and we have one child, a boy. During the 16 years, my wife packed her belongings and moved to her ...

A.   18 August 2009: I do believe you can find happiness with your younger partner as I am in a similiar situation 27 years difference she is 18 however. We are happy but nobody else is with our relationship. We both love each other, but that is not enough for some ... (read in full...)

I want bigger boobs so I look sexy in front of my husband!

Q.   Dear all, Im 24 and married since a year, I want to increase my boobs size without cosmetic stuffs. I need 32 size bra. I dont know the cup size. Please suggest some medicines or something that make my boobs bigger and attractive... I want to look ...

A.   17 August 2009: Not sure why anyone would want to increase their breasts for someone else! If you do anything like that it should be for you. If your husband is not happy with the way you look then he shouldnt have married you. Also not all men like large breasts ... (read in full...)

Almost 21 and never had a boyfriend... will I ever find my true love?

Q.   I have never had a boyfriend and I am turning 21 this year! To be honest, I am very worried now as I am already in the third year of my university life...... And I often gets depressed when I get questions about why i never have boyfriends before. ...

A.   16 August 2009: who Knows its not a science! you can go through life for years never meeting the right person then a chance meeting and you find Mr right. All I would say is dont be to worried about it that you take second best you are still young and you may just ... (read in full...)

Do I have Phimosis?

Q.   Hi all I was just wondering if this was phimosis. Sorry it might be a bit long. Iv'e just turned 17 and only jst relised how far a normal foreskin should be pulled back. When my penis is flacid, you only just see the tip of the glans. I was a l...

A.   16 August 2009: hi, well i can tell you now it is quite normal in young menwith foreskins to have problems pulling it back far enough. I had the exact same problem when i was younger, sometimes I think its the dads fault for not advising their sons that they should ... (read in full...)

My b/f proposed for the 3rd time and I accepted but this other guy is on my mind

Q.   How do i get this guy off my mind? I have been working at it for the past year now without success. I have a bf and he is the sweetest and most loving person i have ever known. I was very much inlove with him until i met this new guy, Jason.Ja...

A.   16 August 2009: Personally I think that you need to have a good long think about whether your bf is the right person for you. If you are having feelings for this jason then I would say he is not the right man for you and in years to come should you decide to marry ... (read in full...)

I want to be in a relationship with an older man but I'm unsure...what do you think?

Q.   Ok so Im 17 going on 18 next year and I like an older guy and hes 26 years old going on 27 in september. Were friends and hes really nice. I know just because guys are nice doesnt mean theyll be like that all the time. And because of our age ...

A.   10 August 2009: Hi as I am an older man in a relationship with a younger woman in fact I am 45 and she is 18!!! what I would say is dont just jump into a relationship just because he is older and thats what you like. Be friends and see how things develop as they ... (read in full...)

I'm nervous about giving a blow-job for the first time... any tips?

Q.   I am planning on giving my bf a blowjob for his birthday but I have never done it before and am a little nervous about doing it, I want it to be amazing for him but I just don't have a clue what I am doing and what to expect, I have been reading ...

A.   9 August 2009: Something that everyone has forgotten to mention is to look at him as you do it as when a guy can see that you are enjoying giving him pleasure he will get even more turned on.... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?

Q.   I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...

A.   8 August 2009: Well for what its worth I would not even entertain it. I am not all high and mighty and moralistic beleive me I have done stuff I am not proud of and have been a real shit to women when I was younger. What I do know is that Men see sex in a totally ... (read in full...)

How do I go about asking her parents if I can take her out?

Q.   There's this girl who I really like and she really likes me, I'm 17 and she's 14. I don't think there's anything wrong with that, but I'm afraid what her parents might say if I took her out. What do I do about her parents??...

A.   7 August 2009: from my experience and being a dad to a 16 yearold who I have been protective over. I would say firstly ask your girlfriend what she thinks and say that you would like her parents to know that you are taking her out and that you will look after her ... (read in full...)

I'm 28, He's 66. Do you think the age difference is too great?

Q.   I need to know other peoples opinion about my current relationship. I am 28 year old female and dating a 66 year old male. Nobody in my family knows about it because I am quite sure they are not going to approve. I really love this man and some...

A.   7 August 2009: Just another one to consider, I watched the film chaplin last night and did you know that Charlie Chaplin the actor from the silent screen days married an 18 year old when he was in his 60s and he died when he was 86. They had 8 children together... (read in full...)

Is it OK to be 34 and be strictly platonic friends with a 15 year old girl?

Q.   I know that guys in their mid-30's shouldn't really be friends with teenagers (especially girls), but one of my friends has a 15-year-old daughter who really wants to be my friend. I think she is really awesome and I would like to be her friend ...

A.   7 August 2009: pretty difficult this one as I met a girl when she was 14 and she was friendly with me whenever we saw each other which was only maybe twice a year. then about two years ago she started to be more flirty with me and she is a great laugh and I was ... (read in full...)

I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop.

Q.   I need urgent help; I'm cheating on my boyfriend and I can't stop. He's away on holiday, and I've been getting close to this guy the last month or so. Last night we went to the cinema and he held my hand and stroked my leg, then on the way home we ...

A.   6 August 2009: This is a hard one as its all exciting when someone else shows you attention and you are attracted to them and its easy to end up doing something you regret./ But regret is what will happen,if you love your boyfriend then he should be enough for ... (read in full...)

I'm 28, He's 66. Do you think the age difference is too great?

Q.   I need to know other peoples opinion about my current relationship. I am 28 year old female and dating a 66 year old male. Nobody in my family knows about it because I am quite sure they are not going to approve. I really love this man and some...

A.   5 August 2009: Hi Just that you know I am myself in a relationship with a woman who is 18 years old and I am 45. And we have had nothing but hassle over it, we are both in love with each other and know what we are doing is right for us! Your situation is sli... (read in full...)

I've been avoiding sex because I'm afraid of being compared to her other 30 partner!

Q.   I have a girlfriend and we have been official for just over a month now. I've known her for 3 years prior to getting involved with her. She is a lovely person, and I'm so glad we are together, but she recently confided in me that she has slept with ...

A.   2 August 2009: Look talking fromexperience I can tell you that these 30 other men were probably one night stands that did not have any emotional connection and probably just slept with her without even trying to please her! When you are in a relationship with some... (read in full...)

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