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I feel more like a friend with benefits!

Q.   I've been seeing a guy for 5 months 3 times a week we play pool cards talk spend time together we have sex once a week, he always comes to my house i have been to his once... i have met is 11 year old daughter but apart from that i have not met ...

A.   12 August 2009: i've been in this situation. And i have to tell you, if you feel like a friends with benefits, its probably because you are! After 5 months if he wanted to be with you properly, you would have met all the important people in his life and he would... (read in full...)

Should I have someone check on my husband?

Q.   My husband treats my like a queen. However he has lied to me about some very serious issues and some very petty issues.I don't think my husband is sexually cheating on me but I get this gut feeling that something isn't right either. When I get this ...

A.   10 August 2009: I feel that gut insticts are usually correct. However, i do also believe that if you are in a relationshp with someone you should trust them fully. If not, then you should leave them. Only you know the full story. I hope it all works out good.... (read in full...)

What's the big deal about letting a man ejaculate in a woman's mouth?

Q.   Why is it that alot of people have a problem with the question of a woman giving oral sex and letting a man ejaculate in her mouth or her swallowing? I ask it and some feel the need to humiliate or belittle or call me a jerk or use the word "de...

A.   10 August 2009: I think bad ash nailed it "basically it's that women don't want to feel pressured into doing anything they're not comfortable with sexually" Personally, i would preffer not to, not because its degrading or anything, just because it is a slightl... (read in full...)

How can I deal with this? Found supervisor naked with my husband!

Q.   My workmate was staying with us after a party and when i had gone to bed she seduced my husband-i came down stairs to find them both naked. the following morning i didnt mention it to her as i was in shock. My hubby and i have discussed it and are ...

A.   10 August 2009: If he goes this far knowing that you are just upstairs, what would he do if you were not around!!??!! ... (read in full...)

A man 20 years my junior is interested, what to do?

Q.   i am 40 and a guy of 21 is interested in me, what should i do...

A.   9 August 2009: well, do you like him? If so, then what does he want from you? a relationship? or just sex? and what do you want from him? Think about all these questions and if you both want the same thing, then go for it! but if it is a relationship you... (read in full...)

I think I broke my hymen... does that mean I'm no longer a virgin?

Q.   Hi everyone! i was wondering if you can help me with this it embarrassing to ask but i want to know if im wrong..... well im a virgen who started mastrabating with a vibrator so one day i was in shower and as i was mastrabating a little bit of blood ...

A.   8 August 2009: Yeah your a virgin still. breaking your hymen doesn't mean you have lost your virginity. you lose your v when when a man puts his penis inside your virgina. ... (read in full...)

I finally acted out my fantasy and now I feel sick and disgusted

Q.   To cut this as brief as possible,i had always had a fantasy of being gangbanged. I decided to do it with 6 guys. Unfortunately,i feel ill with disgust,the reality is i was lying there and they were just taking turns. I feel violated,it wasnt what i ...

A.   8 August 2009: Forgive yourself. How were you to know beforehand that it would be awful? you tought it was going to be great and it wasn't. Humans make mistakes... ...we also learn from them! you will never make that mistake again! If it has had more of a p... (read in full...)

I'm nervous about giving a blow-job for the first time... any tips?

Q.   I am planning on giving my bf a blowjob for his birthday but I have never done it before and am a little nervous about doing it, I want it to be amazing for him but I just don't have a clue what I am doing and what to expect, I have been reading ...

A.   8 August 2009: I suggest you grab the shaft of his penis with one hand and suck on it. Get a rythmn going. It's that simple! You can also lick the length of his penis and just try to vary the sensation your giving him. As your doing it, ask him if he wants you ... (read in full...)

I'm a virgin but want to be FWB with this guy... anyone got any tips on what to do?

Q.   I have fallen for a guy who just wants friends with benefits, we have only kissed at the moment but he wants more, I am quite happy because I like him my problem is that I am a virgin and he is the only person I have kissed, he doesn't know this and ...

A.   8 August 2009: well. well. well. my first time was with a friends with benefits. So i am hoping i can help you! I was 19, and the curiosity was killing me! i just wanted to know what all the fuss was about. And i have to tell, you i do not regret it one bi... (read in full...)

Should I tell my mom I went through a phase where I watched porn, just incase she finds out?

Q.   Right big problem! im 17, 18 at the start of next year. I used to watch porn ALOT! i went threw a big phase , was totally addicted. I fele so dirty about it now, becuase i feel liek its a man thing, even though i know other women do it. Iv...

A.   8 August 2009: Hey! i am a girl and i watch porn. My mum is really religious and would be disgusted. But if she found out, i would just be frank and open with her because i no longer feel embarrassed about doing something that is normal. I suggest you don'... (read in full...)

The girl I slept with is pregnant but the condom didn't split. How else could she be pregnant?

Q.   i have had protected sex but the girl has become pregnant and i dont think the condom split are there anny other ways she became pregnant?...

A.   8 August 2009: maybe it did split but it was a small tare that you didn't see. I suggest you give her the benefit of the doubt, and don't assume that she is lying.... (read in full...)

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