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I'm married but still like this guy from work..do I change jobs?

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Question - (5 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 August 2007)
A female Australia age 41-50, anonymous writes:

hi

I married but I fear I have fallen in love with a guy who was not married at that time, but is now when he has known it , I need help... I know its too late to do anything all this has been a non verbal communication between us I do not have any support he has support...he really liked me also though he had his girlfriend butI feared only for one night because he is quite of a flirt...its been a couple of years we have never spoken...he was trying so hard to get me but I was confused now he showing off with his partner... it hurts worst we are different religion.. I am kind of ok now but it still hurts but my question is my work do I need to leave though we am from different departs,,,?By the way my relationship with my hubby is fine...How do I take it?

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntThere's something your not getting at home that you 're looking to get somewhere else. I suggest you look at what this other man gives you that your hubby doesn't. Talk to your hubby, not about this other guy, but tell him what you're wanting and what you're needing. Do it before you do something you will regret. Affairs destroy people and marriages. Remember this, you get what you give. If you want attention, you have to give attention. If you want kisses and cuddles you have to give kisses and cuddles. You may find out your husband is not for you, but don't have an affair, you'll feel alot better about yourself. Decide what you want, and do it.

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A female reader, thatgothgirl20 United States +, writes (6 August 2007):

thatgothgirl20 agony auntOnly you know you, whether you want to leave your job or not, but if you don't want to leave it, just try to avoid him and avoid tempting scenarios.

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