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41-50,
anonymous
writes:When I have an orgasm during sex my boyfriend always says he has never felt that (ie the sensations etc) with any other girl and he has been with a number of girls and had a number of gf's and is a very very good lover. Generally when I have an orgasm the "sensations" triggers him off straight away to climax and there is little he can do to prevent climaxing himself unless he pulls completely. But he totally loves it and thinks its amazing and I have always been quite happy with my sex life so I am not wanting "conselling" or anyone telling me to be happy about it or my bf loves me or anything about this!!!It is JUST that it got me being curious about what other girls are really like or more so what they feel like to the guy when they orgasm. I find rather hard to believe my sort of "orgasms" are as "rare" and that few women experience / feel this way esp for the guy. Anyway I would love to hear from the boys about this - do different girls feel differently when they orgasm? And is this sort of thing I described really as "rare"? And what does it generally feel like when the girls does orgasm? And does it vary from woman to woman....like some girls feel more intense, or different sensations or different whatever.....are some "better" than others etc ! (sorry girls, dont take this personally but this is more a question I want to hear from the guys and only the guys can answer - so no girls need answer) Thanks boys - hopefully you can shed some light on this from a MAN's point of view!!
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (20 July 2008):
 It is simple, when your climax several muslces as supposed to contract that help the sperm get inside your womb where the egg is supposed to be.
Among these muscle spams is is the contraction of your vagina. Women can learn to control this on their own with practice. This is very nice because it basically means the penis is being 'milked'.
I am not suprised it makes him come, in some way that is perhaps the entire purpose, wether it is strictly the feeling of you contracting that does it is up for debate. Men are not entirely physical and knowing you are climaxing may help push him over the edge.
But what does it feel like? Hard to describe but basically it feels like your vagina is gripping far thighter then normal.
Some women how ever have the reverse, they loosen up when they climax removing stimulation for the man. So yeah, there are differences from woman to woman.
However, the smartest thing to do is to accept the compliment, be happy he enjoys sex with you a lot and not over-analyse things.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): I don't think you're rare so much as gifted! But yes, in my experience you're something of a rarity, and it's all to do with the pelvic floor muscles - the ones you use to stop peeing mid-stream. It's why blowjobs are popular with men - more pressure can be applied.I've literally lost count of the women I've had sex with, probably more than 40, and I can tell you that only two of them have had pussy muscles that could snip a snickers bar or a banana into small pieces.Generally speaking, the tighter the better as far as intense orgasms go, and I'm no different to your boyfriend in that if I was having sex with you I'd probably come when you did if your muscles flex like I'm imagining them to do. That said, there would be no multiple orgasms for you so in that respect a pussy that was less intense would allow me to last longer and satisfy you better.If you want to drive him wild with ecstasy, and with this gift of yours it'll be a piece of cake, you get on top and slide down on him. Tighten up those muscles and slowly rise up. When you get near the top of the stroke ease them off and sink back down again. Repeat.I guarantee he'll have a smile on his face for the reast of the week!
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