Should I break up with him?

A female age 36-40, *illy Rose writes:

I really need people's advice on this. I am 21 and have been with my bf for 3 years, we have broken up before twice both times because i wanted to. My bf is loving, caring, always puts me first, but is quiet and doesnt socialise much unless its with me and he finds it hard to talk to people and express feelings even to me. Im now at that point again were i want out, but feel so bad because he is such a lovely man. Saturday i kissed someone else and didnt feel bad. people are telling me to stay with him because ill never find a man as good as him, but im bored and feel like ive lost myself. We try and talk things out but they always go back to the same ways him being quiet and it drives me mad. I dont know what to do....do i stay with him because hes always treated me right and always will...or do i leave because im wanting more? If i loved him the way he loves me surely i would not of kissed another?

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