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writes:I have been living with my fiance for 4 years we have our own house etc but I have been seeing my ex for the last 6 months. I love them both but I really don't know what to do. I feel trapped and confused. My ex thinks I still live at home. I keep feeling panicked I know I need to sort it out. Please help.
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (2 September 2007):
 The bottom line here is you know its wrong to be seeing both people and that you shoulden't be doing it. I think you are laying alot on the line here because ultimately you are risking losing both guys here and ending up on your own. All it takes is one slip for you fiance to find out you have being seeing you ex for six months, and would he still want you if he knew the truth?. And your ex still thinks you live at home, does he even know you are engaged?.
I think you have got to sort it out because you are effectively living a lie, and at the end of the day someone is going to get really hurt.
If you choose your fiance are you going to tell him the truth about your ex?. I say this because marriages are built on trust, i don't know how you can go into a marriage knowing that you have been decieving for six months with your ex. He deserves to know the truth then its up to him whether he still wants to continue with this relationship or not.
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