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I'm interested in two men... who are older and younger versions of each other!

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Question - (1 August 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 August 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I not sure when all of this started, but I met the most amazing man in the world. I've been having relationship toubles for so long and decided just to take time for myself, when I notice him. I've known him for years but never really saw him.

He can make me forget everything with just a smile or a word. I never saw it as anything but just friends because of our age difference (24years) but lately I've started feeling different towards him. I've done nothing about it because I don't want to rock the boat and ruin what we have, but I feel he has been giving me signals and not realized it. I'm beginning to think people can see this too and he can't, I don't know what to do. I would love to take a chance with him, but I think he is afraid of what would happen to both us and our families.

With all of this happening another guy I've been interested in, who's the same age as me, can see what's going on and has been around me a lot lately. I caught him just looking at me a few times, he'd get all embarrassed and leave the room. He finally asked me out.

I don't know what to do, they are both so much alike, just older and younger versions of each other. They make me laugh like no one else can and they infuriate me also. What do I do try with one, and if so who? Or just walk away from both?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 August 2006):

Honestly it all comes down to is when u picture your life say 20 years from now..who can you picture yourself with. 24 years is a big gap but if you truly want to be with this guy then dont let anything stop that.Just one bit of advice. Dont walk away from this.If you did you would be walking away from your happiness.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 August 2006):

eyeswideopen agony auntAs long as nobody's married, then why can't you date both?

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