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writes:Im 15 Yrs Old And Im In Love With My Brothers Best Mate Whos 24 Yrs Old. Isit Wrong That Im In Love With Him. I Really Want A Future With Him And He Wants To Be With Me But His Worried People Will Say Something About The Age Gap. Iv Told My Brother Im In Love With His Best Mate And He Was Ok About It He Just Said To Me Well Will He Get With You But My Brother Dont Know That His In Love With Me And Wants Me! How Do I Tell Him? Please Somebody Help Me!! Reply to this Question
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reader, lil'shade  +, writes (29 November 2008):
Be very calm and make sure he's calm too. Say brother your best friend loves me and I know your ok with me loving him but your going to have to get use to us being together. We love each other and were not going to stop seeing each other. We plan on having a future together. After you express your feelings to him, see how he feels about the situation. An make sure you stand your ground.
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reader, kayleiigh_ox +, writes (28 November 2008):
kayleiigh_ox is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe both know about each others past relationship. He's a good guy. I've known him a while now and we get along really well, we both really want it to work out. I don't know whether to just get my brother's best mate to kinda hint to him that he's in love with me and see what my brother says to that..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Well, hold back on your conclusion that you're in love. You haven't even dated the guy; its an infatuation.
That said, considering that you've actually talked to your brother, it might lead me to believe you're pretty open with him? I would just be straightforward with him and tell him how you feel, and that you want to pursue a relationship with his friend.
However, in doing so, sincerely ask for his input on the matter. Realize that you are NINE years younger than him. If you come to decide that this is something you really are going to pursue, ask him to look after you. Better yet, ask him about his past relationships and whether you can trust the guy. Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Oops! I think I have understood the post now.
If my brother knew that one of his best friends was chatting up his 15 year old sister about wanting her,the guy would never be able to enter our house again.The friend probably would have to spend a month in hospital as well.Depends on the kind of brother you have.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Golly! To think that you guys taught us English in the first place.
From the posts I have read seems like you are not in the legal age limit for a 24 year old guy.He might get scared of going to jail and never even talk with you again.Check the legal aspects first.
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