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*innie93
writes:Ok my girlfriend cheated on me with this guy she soon broke up with me for but they can't ever see eachother that much because they live far from eahcother and we started to fall in love again while those two were dating now. The thing is, I didn't know she cheated till after she broke up with me and we were in love.We couldn't get back together because of their relationship but when I found out, I started to confront her boyfriend a lot and apparently got on his nerves so he broke up with her and she now blames it all on me and everything else in her life. She hates my guts and she said she doesn't want me in her life at all.I was nothing but nice to her and she doesn't talk to me anymore and its ripping my heart to pieces because I've been in love with her for months ever since we went out.I've had my friend talk to her but he said that she says there's nothing I can do or say to make her like me not even as a friend anymore.Someone help me. How do I get her to stop hating me? It hurts so much because we had too much fun to loose our friendship now...
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 you cant stop this girl hating you... you have no control over her feelings...
the best thing for you to do is learn from this, and apologize to her then leave it. if your meant to remain friends you will and she will forgive you, if not you cant change the past.
i know its hard for you to hear but give the girl some space, apologize, and even to the guy if you have too... show her who the bigger person is.
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