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I'm in love with a man but my family is planning an arranged marriage for me with another man

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Question - (18 November 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 November 2012)
A female Pakistan age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi.I m a bit shy gal nd love a guy onli9.I m unmarried nd never been in relationship wid any guy.Just he is d first guy of my life nd my love for him is deep.But d problem is dat we r from different country,same religion.He is indian nd me paki.I wanna marry him but dont know how to convince my parent.My family is an orthodox nd a lot strict. Plz help me out if u could. i have just 6 months in my hand after dis my fmily going to fix my marriage wid someone else dat i seriously dont wanna get happen.:(

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2012):

Have you told your family that there is a man that your in love with? Maybe if they realised then they wudnt be making you marry another man

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (18 November 2012):

janniepeg agony auntYou should get to know who that arranged guy is, and see if you could actually live with that man. If that man is gay, abusive, then of course you should refuse marriage. I don't understand in your culture, if you are eventually going to marry a guy that your family found for you, why bother dating on your own?

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