A
female
age
30-35,
*eengirl
writes:im in love with a boy but its not simple. he has a gf. he has told me many times that he is in love with me and we are sort of together in secret. hes too much of a decent guy to be lying, ive known him too long. his gf is going thru alot of stress at the mo and i understand why he couldnt end it with her. shes been in america for a month and myself and this boy have been basically dating behind her back. i feel so guilty but i love him and i know he loves me...i want to be with him.help.
View related questions:
has a girlfriend Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): From someone who has been there, believe me, he's lying. If he wanted to end it with his girlfriend he would. Get rid of this guy or you'll be dragged into whatever mess they are in and I can guarantee you will come out looking the worst in the whole thing.
A
male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): i think that Ponungalungb is right. I see no problem if he tells her the truth and ends it. It is not right for you to go out if the girl in america and he are still technically together but once it is ended it is fine. It is better for everyone that way.
good luck
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2007): I'm not surprised his gf is going through a lot of stress if this is the type of guy she has!!! What kind of a girl are you, a back stabber. How would you feel if you were here? Gutted. Keep away from him he is taken. Have some dignity and walk away and get a bloke of your own, this just makes me mad.
take care
xx
...............................
A
female
reader, lilgirly  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 hey,i see no point for him going out with the other girl if he loves you .so ask him to tell her the truth and leave her before he hurts her any longer and then you will be together but not before that, because you might really hurt her if you don't tell her the truth. good luck byeXXX
...............................
A
male
reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (3 November 2007):
 When the cat's away the mice will play. It seems that you have him now, so what's the question?
If he loves you and you love him and she's in America, what's the dealio? Tell him to end it with her and that should take care of it. You say he can't end it with her. Why not? If he doesn't love her, there is no sense to keep her on the string. Tell him to be honest with her and end it. If he can't, there may be more to this than you know.
Good luck.
...............................
|
