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writes:my husband won't french kiss me at all or perform oral sex on me. He just wants to have sex. I am in good shape and have great grooming. Is there something wrong. I am sure he does not run out on me. We have been married for 33 years and he has always been that way. We have one grown daughter and that is married. She is so attractive she could be on fox news truthfully she is gorgeous. My husband is great with fiances and works extremely hard getting our home in great shape and also helps a lot of people. Give me your advice.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (18 August 2009):
 It's a two-way street, quite naturally. If you give and he does not, then stop giving. The truth is that providing oral pleasure is a bit laborious for either giver, but lovers do it to provide joy, relaxation and happiness to our partner. Some of us, in my opinion, also enjoy it as pleasure. If oral stimulation is important to you, which is enjoyable for most women, then seek it. You live only once.
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reader, kahlan  +, writes (17 August 2009):
 Hello.I thought id answer your problem as i am in the same sort of situation.My partner has no problem French Kissing,but its been many years since he has given me oral sex.We have been together 10 years and we are 33 and 40 respectivley.We gave each other oral all the time at the beginning of our relationship.Im not sure when he stopped.I love giving him oral,but our sex life is nearly non existant now.Sorry for going on about my problems when it should be yurs we are concentrating on.Some men are just turned off by giving a woman oral sex.I dont doubt you keep yourself clean and fresh down below,but some guys just dont like the taste or wetness.Has he EVER tried going down on you?Have you spoke to him about this?Maybe he doesnt realise how much it means to you.Does he let you go down on him?You could try to give each other oral in the bath or shower.If it really isnt for him,then at least he gave it a try.Even if he isnt giving u oral,there is other kinds of 4play.Good Luck.I hope everything goes well for you,and you get a sex life you enjoy.Kahlan.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): Maybe your hubby should stay away from other people's fiances! Just kidding.. I know you meant finances.... just couldn't resist.I know you think you have good hygiene, but perhaps you have halitosis. People I have met with horrific breath do not know they are giving off a horrible stench. I can smell their horrible breath several feet away and yet somehow they are totally unaware of the odor they give off every time they exhale.Perhaps an olfactory turn-off from your mouth translates into your other set of lips. A woman's labia is her other set of lips. I have met some girls with really smelly vaginas at certain times of the month which is a big turn off. Yet the same vagina at other times smells great. The mind is a funny thing.I would check hygiene. Trim your pubes down to a light carpet that is short, but not rough. Clean everything out. Ask a close friend or your doctor to check you for halitosis and start there.
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