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I'm in a relationship with a great girl..but I'm curious about gay sex...

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Question - (1 July 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 July 2008)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been in a great relationship for a few years now. I love my GF and we have a great sex life, nothings wrong. I'm just a little bit curious about trying things with a guy. I don't think guys are hot, women are a lot more beautiful, I just have fantasies about gay sex. I don't want to ruin my relationship but can't help having homoerotic thoughts. What should I do?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2008):

i, myself, am a married bisexual woman. my husband and i have been together 2 and a half years. i've always been attracted to women more so than to men. he knows that and he's okay with that. what you're feeling may just be curiosity or it may be something more. it's difficult to say, really. it depends on the individual. if it's something you feel you need to act on, do it, just try not to hurt her in the process. if you want to experiment, do it on your own time. you should really discuss it with her though if you think it's just curiosity. be honest with her. don't lie.

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A female reader, stauffera91 United States +, writes (1 July 2008):

stauffera91 agony auntplease leave your girlfriend before she is heartbroken to find her boyfriend likes guys.... im not trying to be mean when i say this i just know it would really suck if i were the girl and found that out she would be so crushed.... so just dont hurt her! poor girl ... and try it out!

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