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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:So, me and this guy have been in a sort of relationship for about 4 months. Anyways we had decided on an open relationship because its a long distance thing. So he had always texted me called me and we kept things great! He called me his angel and i completey fell in love. Btw i am completely in love with him. Anyways about 3 days ago he says he feels bad because he turned down this girl, later he goes on and says he likes her and wants to ask her out. Of course, I am hurt beyond measure even though technically he is allowed to since it is an open relationship. So he knows that I am upset and he tell him and he says that he loves me and sorry he is hurting me. He goes on and says he knows what love is because he found me and he will never stop loving me even when he is with this girl. So now Im confused why he would leave the one he loves for the one he likes. And why he would hurt me so bad. Does he really love me?
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reader, cheekyme  +, writes (18 September 2008):
 To be honest it sounds like he does love you, but not enough to bear the long distance relationship. If he loved you as much and he said he did, then he wouldnt wont to get with another lass. and to be fairly true i dont think its right for him to tell you that he loves you and then get with anothr lass and probly tell her the same thing. Its going to hurt you to much, and i dont no if hes worth it but obviously you think he is. So all i can say is, if you think you can move on you should because, he knows how much you love him and if he tell you he loves you too, then he shouldnt hurt you by getting with another lass, even if it is a open relationship.Sorry and i wish you the best of luck with your desicion.
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