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writes: I started to go out with a guy and everything seemed perfect but he then disappeared and did not even answer my text messages I though something could have happened to him, A couple of months later I went to visit my granfather to hospital as he was to die but I did not know yet, I felt very sensible and down There was a lady from the mentioned guy's village so I sort of said I knew this guy and she told my mother his family had illegal business related to prostitution and I couldn't believe it at first , I wanted to think this lady was confused though I felt real down for a time and find it very difficult to trust people now it is blocking me to meet peopleany advise?
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reader, Toria +, writes (28 September 2006):
 Not everyone is the same or does that same things to hurt us and let us down.
You need to open your heart to people whether they turn out to be good or bad as you can only learn from these experiances.
I don't regret any of the bad choices I made regarding picking the wrong one or picking someone that hurt or let me down as we can't all go through life wrapped in cotten wool never experiancing hurt and pain we just seem to find a way of picking ourselves back up and getting on with it.
Good luck, hope this helps :o)
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reader, camille  +, writes (28 September 2006):
 My only advice is to stay rational. That was one heck on an exceptional circumstance and the chance of meeting anyone else harbouring a dark secret such as that are low. Many people have skeletons in their closets as we all have a past, including you, so put it behind you and move on. Forget about this bloke and his lying. There's plenty of nice blokes who you can trust. Let down your guard and open up to the idea that not all people are the same.
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