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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I've been seeing this girl which I met whilst we had other partners and broke up with them for each other. I feel that she is the one and am beginning to fall in love and i think she feels the same way.At the moment she lives in the next city so im used to a long distance relationship, but she is off to boarding school :(. I feel sick when i haven't seen her for a week and soon i won't see her for weeks at a time :(. She will get lots of time off and I will be in touch with her every day hopefully as well as going up to see her.I really don't know what to do because I can't live with this pain of not seeing her, I'm literally in tears right now. As a relationship goes the plans for being able to see her are clear up until the end of next summer when I go to uni as I don't know where i will be based.I'm constantly smiling thinking about her then this thought of her leaving looms over :(. I trust her a lot but will really miss spending time with her.Can someone please give me advice ? :(
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (25 August 2010):
I see my girlfriend every couple of weeks for a weekend. We're long distance. So it can work, and you can live with it. Of course you'll miss spending time with her. But as long as you both put effort into your relationship and continue to talk and have fun when she's at school or when she comes back, you'll be fine. In the meantime, make sure your world doesn't just revolve around her. Focus on your own life too. Make sure you have hobbies and make sure you have some good friends. You will live. But you need to be proactive with your own life.
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