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female
age
30-35,
*P1993
writes:Hey guys, thanks for reading this long question. I dont quite now where to start.So i'm with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. And we spend all the spare time we have with each other, which is everyday. And once a week he goes out to the pub with his friends, which is fine, (i still see him before he goes out, though) but now its at the point where i'm just so bored. We do the same thing everyday, he never wants to go out with other couples, he'd rather stay in. (And i want to tell him all this by the way, but he's quite sensitive and he'd be really hurt by all of this.) I just want my own space, the only problem is, i have no female friends because all the ones i had didnt get on with my boyfriend and i havent spoken to them in about a year and a half. So i have no-one to go out with or to confide in anymore.Secondly, every time i'm upset or feeling down about something, he NEVER re-assures me or hugs me. He just sits there and looks awkward. I dont understand why, because as i said, he's quite sensitive and always asks for a hug.Thirdly, i sometimes get the feeling he still has or had feelings for his ex. At the start of our relationship she used to phone him and he's answer, or text and he's reply. There was even an occasion where she wanted to meet up and go for a drive to clear the air between them, and he agreed and went, for a couple of hours. And then the other day, he was playing a new game on his PC and he showed me his high scores and the name he'd given himself was the nickname she used to call him when they were together. And even the other day in the car, we were driving into the town centre and we saw her walk past and he was waving and smiling sarcasticlly, so i just stared at her (we dont like each other) and i looked at my boyfriend and he was smiling back and looked happy.I don't know if i'm being paranoid or this is something i should be concerned with?I'd just like to point out also, he's not the sort of person to cheat or anything like that, so i'm not worried about that.Any advise is much appreciated. Thanks guys x
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Well, I'm getting old, but at no point in my life would I have treated a girl like this.Don't accept this from anyone, not now, not ever, you deserve better.
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