A
female
age
30-35,
*andacemind
writes:My bf and I have been dating for almost 9 months now. He is perfect in so many ways, he is very sweet, protective and very loving. I have never worried that he would hurt me or anything like that. We don't fight often and he isn't controlling or anything like that. BUT he has been weird during s*x, When we are together like that he has this look on his face that I cant explain, its like he is completely black, just staring at me. He says nothing, and he is forceful. Not like he makes me do things but , if he is on top for example he will have a hold of me , my shoulder holding me down or on my hips controlling things. He can hold very tightly to the point I will have to tell me to let go. He has thrusted so hard it hurts. After we are done he is normal I have brought it up a few nights ago and he looked at me like I was crazy, he said he would never hurt me and didn't seem to even remember me asking him to stop. What is going on with him. why would he be this way whiel we re initmate Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): It sounds as if he has been 'taught' about sex through pornography. Girls seem to get plenty of advice about the intimate side of relationships. While a lot of lads are left to figure it out themselves and turn to porn for tips. Speak to your partner and explain what you would like. Theres making love. Then theres sex. To be a good lover he needs to understand what you want. You must teach him.
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