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I'm feeling a little guilty about the fantasy of who I think of when I masturbate, but should I be feeling so guilty?

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Question - (6 June 2015) 2 Answers - (Newest, 7 June 2015)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I've been happily married for a number of years and the sex life with my wife is great. However, I cannot stop masturbating with my wife's sister as the fantasy.

My sex life with my wife is not suffering because of this, I have a very high sex drive and sometime my wife cannot keep up, so I masturbate whenever possible to my wife's sister.

It's just masturbation and I would never try anything with my wife's sister. I'm feeling a little guilty about it, but should I be?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (7 June 2015):

I usually find Honeypie's comments the best and look forward to them and usually I do not comment after her because I have nothing to add, but on this one I think she is expressing her opinion from a woman's view.I say we men do have some crazy fantasies when masturbating as we do not think with our heads at such times and as long as you totally forget it afterwards and in fact find the idea quite revolting in real life.I say as long as you have it as a fantasy locked away in your head, then you are ok.Don't give it too much thought.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (6 June 2015):

Honeypie agony auntJust because your WIFE can't keep up with your sex drive doesn't REALLY make it OK for you to OBJECTIFY your wife's sister, that is just YOUR justification.

Honestly, I find it a tad tacky and icky. I'm not saying you HAVE to only fantasize about your wife.. but her sister? Seriously? Your imagination is that limited?

I hope you keep it to yourself and not tell the wife or the sister....

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