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writes:hi. i am just curious about something.. im 17 years old, im quite short fo rmy age, about 5'3. im a size 14-16 in clothes, but i only come in at a B in bra size. is this weird? when i look in the mirror i get so depressed. i have the smallest boobs in the world, and theyre made to look even smaller in comparison to my big love handles and large thighs. is this normal? iv never seen anyone with a figure like mine. i feel ugly. would a guy find it weird if he saw me naked? i feel like no one could ever love me. how do i overcome this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2009): I have the same thing going on I am fourteen and my boobs are small and pointy and are about a B and I wear 14-16 too I just hope that maybe as I get older it will get normal :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): your breast size is just fine. great in fact. You will always be able to find tops that fit well and you can wear special bras to help make the girls stand up or separate as needed. you can wear tank tops without a bra or with the built in bra support. you're lucky. your height is good too. as a previous poster noted, if you're concerned about your weight get moving and loose some pounds. chances are you'll only gain weight as you get older so now IS the time to develop some healty physical activity habits and healthy eating habits too. and as for they guys...the like 'em all shapes and sizes...its the person they like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): I know how you feel, I am exactly the same, when I try to lose weight the first part of me to shrink is my boobs, the one area I don't want to get smaller. I have put on over a stone in weight in the past year and yet my boobs are no bigger at all. I thought bigger women had bigger boobs, but now I have come to the conclusion that boob size is down to genes alone. My mum had small boobs until she had me, her second child. I have had 3 children and my boobs are no different to how they looked at 16, still small with large areola. My sister got my share, she has huge breasts (she takes after my Dad's sisters), as have her 2 daughters.I am a 40B bra size, so I wear size 16/18 clothes yet only a size B bra.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): I dont think you should be worrying about your body sweety it is whats on the inside that counts. You will one day meet a great guy because your beautiful inside and out. The ones that go for looks only trust me arent worth keeping anyway.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): 5'3 is not short is average. and b size is actually consider to be ideal. Adriana Lima the victora's secret model is a small b size and she's ideal. If you're over weight i wold suggest going on a diet and going to the gym. Not only will you look and feel better but you wil be healthier. Just make sure you dont starve youself. Focus on eating protein and whole grains not white bread or pasta, no artificial.
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reader, Markingbad +, writes (31 October 2009):
 Its true what marieclaire says about women in uk. You are UK "medium". Or cuddly. You have nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2009): Let me let you in on a little secret... guys like all shapes and sizes of women. Guys like women full stop. Guys like boobs full stop, no matter the size. And I'm sure if someone loves you he's going to love you when he sees you naked.
In my opinion women spend way too much time obsessing about their figures, especially their breasts. They say things like they hate their boobs or they hate their nose, or the ass or whatever, and you look at them and you can't for the life of you see what they're going on about! I'm sure you don't look anywhere near as bad as you imagine you do.
Don't waste time obsessing about something only you can see, and you can't do anything about it if it's true.
I think a woman can be sexy no matter what body type she is (well, within reason). It's all in the attitude. If she's confident and comfortable with herself, and feels sexy then she projects that sexiness.
Trust me on that.
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reader, duce00  + ♥, writes (30 October 2009):
 First off let yourself grow up before you start getting all doom and gloom about your body. There is so much pressure about body image being pushed on girls now days its no wonder you are unsure of yourself.
When you get a little older you can consider addressing your weight if it really bothers you. As for the boobs my suggestion is that you rock what you got and not get implants. I think most women look silly with implants and they feel weird too.
I think you have made a wrong assumption about what men are about. Sure some guys are superficial and image oriented but that goes both ways and ultimately who cares. The day will come when you don't care either. As you grow up you will find that alot of men want character and compatibility above looks.
I personally like hips :) So rock what you got girl!
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (30 October 2009):
 first of all the average size in the uk is a size 14 and 5'4 so you're perfectly normal! no matter what size you are there are certain styles of clothing that are more flattering than others you just have to figure out what that is for you. certainly people will love you! attraction comes from what is on the outside, love comes from what is on the inside. everyone's idea of beauty is different so just because you don't look like a model doesn't mean that men won't find you attractive, some won't- but that is true of everyone!!!
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